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How Long Does Avoidant Deactivation Last?
Today we’re going to talk about how long avoidant deactivation tends to last. In order to understand how long it’ll last you’ll need to take the general consensus of what everyone thinks, (usually...
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What if I told you that getting someone to commit to you could be solved with this simple equation: “I = ƒ[A, B, S]” “I equals f of A, B, and S.” This is the equation of the interdependence theory. So,...
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Why Are Dismissive Avoidants Cruel?
Today I’d like to take a look at why dismissive avoidants are often perceived as cruel. This is a very nuanced discussion so a one sentence explanation isn’t probably going to cut it but for those of...
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The Power Of Silence After Rejection
Today I’d like to have an in-depth discussion on the power of silence after rejection. A few years ago I asked a simple question to the members of my private community, Basically it boiled down to the...
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Dismissive Avoidants And The No Contact Rule
Today I’d like to take a good look at what happens when you use a no contact rule on a dismissive avoidant. I’m going to start with a bold statement: At first, using a no contact rule on a dismissive...
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How Do Avoidants Sabotage A Relationship?
Today I’m going to do a deep dive on how avoidants tend to sabotage relationships. Now, there’s a long answer to this and a short answer. I suppose, since we live in the day and age of “tik toks” and...
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What Happens When A Narcissist Collapses?
A few weeks ago, I filmed this video, And the basic premise of it was simple, when you ignore a narcissist, you are in effect interrupting their supply. And for them, this is horrifying. So, they react...
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Traits Avoidants Find Attractive
This is Sarah. She got her avoidant ex back twice (you can see I interviewed her twice .) And this was despite that fact that he said “they’d never get back together…” And again, he did this twice. I...
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The Moment An Avoidant Realizes They Lost You (THIS Will Happen)
For an avoidant to truly experience regret, one key condition has to be met: they need to realize that they’ve lost you. Something I’ve talked in-depth about here, Avoidants often equate intimacy with...
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How A Secure Handles An Avoidant Pulling Away
So, you have an avoidant and they’re pulling away. The natural reaction for someone with an anxious attachment is to chase. But those with a secure attachment are a little different. They override the...
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What Happens To An Avoidant During No Contact?
The number one thing that an avoidant hopes for when you go no contact is to have time to throw off their magician’s outfit. Alright, so what the heck is a magicians outfit? And what does it have to...
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The Weird Things Avoidants Do When They Like You
Avoidants do some weird things when they like you. I know this because for years, I was a dismissive avoidant, so I’m in a unique position to speak on this. Look at this, these are my doors of...
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Why Avoidants Say Things That Don’t Make Sense
There are really five things that an avoidant will do that’ll make no sense to you. And today I’m going to attempt to shed some light on this seemingly bizarre and confusing behavior starting with,...
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Signs An Avoidant Is Hiding Deep Feelings For You
These are the five signs that an avoidant is hiding deep feelings for you. But here’s the thing. You’ve watched this video before. YouTube is full of them. For heaven’s sakes, I’ve done them before....
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An Avoidant Will Feel Instant Regret If You Do This
An avoidant feels instant regret when you mirror their emotional distance but with a twist. And it’s that twist, no one talks about. And to illustrate this point I’d like to play a game. It’s...
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Do Avoidants Fight For A Relationship?
Alright, if you want an avoidant to fight for you. If you want them to stop taking you for granted you need to stop trying to get them back. One of the best places to glean new information about...
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Why Avoidants Don’t Want Relationships
You’ve probably heard the same reasons over and over: “Avoidants don’t fight for you because… ‘They care more about their independence,” ‘They’re afraid of being vulnerable,” ‘They need to stay in...
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Signs An Avoidant Will Come Back After Losing You
Most people think that the reason avoidants come back to you after they lose you is some combination of: You using No Contact. Seeking Comfort in Familiar Surroundings, OR, They Were Seeking...
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How To Know If An Avoidant Is Using You
Not many people know this, but there are three signs that every avoidant will always show if they’re secretly using you. And no… It’s not ignoring your texts… Pulling away… Or ghosting… These are...
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How Secure People React To Avoidants
Most people think a secure person would simply ignore breadcrumbing, or walk away without a second thought, right? But there’s a little-known twist: Secure people actually use breadcrumbing as a...
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