It’s funny, I still remember the days when MySpace was a thing.
(If you don’t know what that is don’t worry, I got your back)
But then Facebook came along and took over as the social media giant!
And as the years ticked by and Facebook became more and more mainstream it started to work it’s way into relationships. Heck, I suppose I do owe Facebook a debt of gratitude because without it I wouldn’t have met my wife.
(FYI: we met on Facebook!)
Don’t believe me?
Well, here is our very first conversation ever,
Honestly it’s really funny looking back at it but I don’t want to get too off topic here.
As Facebook has worked it’s way into dating there are certain rules that you need to abide by if you want to achieve the maximum results with it.
And that leads us to today’s episode.
A few days ago a woman contacted me and asked a relatively simple question,
I have unfriended my ex on Facebook as a result of the advice of my friends but when I found your website I noticed that you advised against unfriending your ex. What am I supposed to do?
I’m not going to lie.
This is a question that I get all the time and in this episode I tackle it!
Video Of Episode 62 (I Unfriended My Ex Boyfriend On Facebook…)
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The Situation At Hand
- The breakup was relatively recent
- Anonymous (the woman who called in to the podcast) says that his reasoning for the breakup was that work was a big issue
- He claims “he’s feeling lost.”
- Her friends suggested that she should unfriend him on Facebook
- So she did just that
- She is currently in the midst of a no contact rule
- She wonders if she should “friend” him on Facebook again
What I Talk About In This Episode
- Facebook is a tool that you can use during the no contact rule
- In fact, all social media is a tool that you can use
- The uninformed giving advice
- Taking what your friend say with a grain of salt
- The stereotypes that society has about getting an ex back
- An embarrassing story about me
- What you should do now that you have unfriended your ex